"I consider Gay and Kathlyn to be my teachers." -John Bradshaw
What Happens Beyond the Words? -or- Vibrational Interpersonal Communication
This topic from our latest Facebook survey reminded me of my long-ago interdepartmental college major. I went to university during the heady days of the counter-cultural revolution and was able to create my own study plan. After months of cogitation I finally titled my major Kinetic Emotional Communication, and that’s the title on my bachelor’s degree. Moving in the same fringe-ish direction I completed a doctoral dissertation on the vibrational matrix that underlies the visible world. So this theme coming up on our latest Facebook poll made me clap my hands with delight, as you can imagine.
So what exactly is vibrational interpersonal communication? The very heart of communication depends on your presence. Your willingness to be with your real self, to share your real self while receiving the heart of another, connects you to the vibration matrix under words, feelings and even body sensations. Your molecules are vibrating all the time. If you are willing to face and feel what you are experiencing, you vibrate in harmony and provide a clear space for others to show up as their authentic selves. If you conceal, judge or blame, you put a crimp in your vibrations, making them sluggish and jangled.
All that talk about “vibes,” well, it’s real. You know it, and you really know when you’re in harmony with you and others and when you’re not. It takes a great deal of tightening, avoidance, and denial NOT to answer this question: “What are you pretending not to know?” (Hasib Saliefendic). All you need to do is give curious attention to yourself and sense if you feel at home in yourself and open to the universe. If you don’t, listen to your inner vibration and love it the way it is. These shifts provide the quickest, friendliest way to smooth out the vibrations and open to connection again. And when you’re really in the here and now, the exact words you use aren’t as critical. Your presence comes through loud and clear. So, what’s happening under your words today?
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