
Who Should Join?
•You’re a single or divorced person who is dedicated to inviting a conscious, loving relationship into your life.
•You have a partner now, and you want to break through to a new dimension of love and harmony in the relationship.
•You are a professional who is dedicated to helping people create breakthroughs in their relationships.
*Your Own Personal Relationship Maintenance Organization
A Message From Kathlyn and Gay Hendricks
We’d like to tell you about our new program and invite you to join us. This new program is designed for busy people who want to make big breakthroughs in their relationships and big leaps forward in their professional development.
Think of this new program as an HMO for relationship transformation: Your own personal Relationship Maintenance Organization. The big difference is that the program is about much more than “maintenance.”
One of the most frequent requests in recent years has been for a program that provided ongoing support and learning, a way to guarantee that their growth going after they return home from one of our seminars or finish one of our eCourses.
Now, we have created a program of monthly ‘live’ sessions, ongoing email support and other features. The program gives you a community of people who are committed to relationship transformation, a place where we can answer your questions, conduct demonstrations of techniques, and provide other resources for you in your relationship journey.
Even better, the new program comes to you, wherever you are. You don’t need to travel, because it’s all done on the phone, by email and on the Internet. You participate in ‘live’ demos and Q&A sessions on the phone with us. You can also get advice and questions answered via email
Make This Commitment And Watch Your Love-Life Change
The new program is a powerful way to make a commitment to long-term, lasting change in your relationships. It will give you a place to get all your questions answered, and get ‘live’ phone coaching and support for your relationship journey.
Plus, if you’re a graduate of one of our other programs, you’re entitled to a special low price. If you have taken one or more of the following programs, you may join us for the TeleCoaching program for a reduced fee:
•Attracting Genuine Love or one of our other eCourses
•Our 3-Day Foundation seminar
•One of our Advanced Trainings
•The Couples Course
Fees
Regular Fee: $24.95/month
Special: Introductory Prices $14.95/month
(Monthly fee of $14.95 will appy to RMO subscribers. Customers can cancel at any time with no obligation.)
Goals Of The Program
The new program has four main goals:
1. To give you tools to deal with your specific relationship challenges.
2. To give you experiential practice in mastering the key skills of creating conscious relationships in your life.
3. To answer your personal relationship questions.
4. To provide breakthrough techniques for individuals and professionals to use in their lives and practices.
You also get the benefit of interacting with other members of the community through our forums and discussion groups. Often, the opportunity to interact with another single person or couple can open up new vistas for you in your relationships. Sharing your experiences, and hearing theirs, can deepen your relationship journey in ways that may surprise and delight you.
Your Dedication Makes The Difference
By now you have probably learned an important lesson about life:
you get what you are committed to getting. Your dedication and commitment to creating a revolution in your love-life is what will ultimately make your dreams come true.
This new program is a way for you to declare your dedication, take a stand and say, “I’m ready and willing to make my relationship dreams come true.” With your dedication and the tools you’ll learn to use in the program, your journey becomes much easier and fulfilling.
Based on the thousands of miraculous transformations we’ve seen, here are the magic moves that create the kind of future you want for your relationships.:
•Eliminate blame, criticism and repetitive arguments with a unique, new form of problem-solving.
•Make real commitments that produce real results.
•Speak honestly, rather than concealing the truth.
•Take healthy responsibility, rather than blaming others.
•Express appreciation, rather than criticizing.
•Maximize the love and intimacy you enjoy in every moment through special communication techniques.
More Detail On What You’ll Learn
The TeleCoaching program will help you learn these practices and put them to work in the heat of the moment. It’s those breakthrough moments that really take your love-life into a new dimension. Although the following practices have extraordinary power, they are also incredibly simple. However, learning to use them reliably over time is what will make the difference in your relationship world.
• A New Way To Solve Problems
Recycling patterns and problems are a major source of complaints in relationship. As one couple put it, “We’ve had the same argument hundreds of times in the 17 years we’ve been together. We never solve it. It always comes back around again.” Imagine the energy that is squandered in those recycling conflicts. A single woman shared her version of a recycling pattern: “I’ve attracted one unavailable man after another. I’m beginning to wonder if there’s anybody out there who’s not married, engaged, running from commitment or too wounded to be available?” The TeleCoaching program will give you the skills to end these patterns, along with the opportunity to practice and receive feedback.
• Making The Key Inner Shifts
One of the most important things we do in the program is to take you through many practice sessions in which you learn the inner shifts that create conscious loving in your life. To change your love-life, you need to make the changes at a deep cellular level inside you. It’s not enough to understand concepts at a mental level. Many of the biggest challenges you face are due to false beliefs about relationships that were imprinted on you long before you could think for yourself. You need a new kind of whole-body, whole-being learning, and that is the specialty of our program.
• Speaking The Truth
You’ll learn the skills of speaking honestly in the heat of the moment. It sounds so simple when we say, “When you experience conflict, notice any body sensations in your shoulders, chest area or around your navel. Take a deep, relaxed breath and describe those sensations in one out-breath, like ‘My shoulders feel tense’ or ‘I’m feeling anxious.’” As you probably know by now though, learning to do this reliably and in the moment is something that requires considerable practice.
• Taking Healthy Responsibility
You’ll learn how to take the kind of responsibility that really heals relationships. Again, the basic instructions are simple: Instead of blame, take healthy responsibility, as in “Hmmm, I wonder how I’m contributing to this conflict?” Invoke wonder by asking questions like these: “Hmmm, why would I be creating this conflict right now?” and
“Hmmm, I wonder how this can be resolved?” It took us months of practicing this seemingly simple process to be able to do it under pressure, when we were most convinced it was the other person’s fault! It can be done, though, and it’s well worth it. We haven’t had a single instance of blame or criticism between us in more than ten years (and haven’t missed it a bit!)
• Expressing Appreciation
Living in a constant flow of appreciation is a major benefit of creating a conscious relationship. Feeling appreciated and feeling appreciative feels wonderful. It also works wonders. The basic moves are incredibly simple, yet produce such powerful results that they seem like magic: First, change your body position in some way that allows you to see a new aspect of the other person. For example, soften your eyes, move to the side or back of your partner, or open your posture by uncrossing your arms. Then, express your appreciation in one out-breath by completing the following sentence:
“I appreciate you for ____________.”
That’s all it ever takes to initiate a flow of positive energy. However, remembering to do it (and learning the skills of doing it well) take quite a bit of practice.
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